You’ve watched every rom com out there and are looking for a soulmates-kind-of-love. Settling is definitely not your thing.
市面上的浪漫爱情片你全都看过，你想要的恋人是一个和你心有灵犀的灵魂伴侣。你是绝对不会将就的。
You’ll know you’ve found THE guy because he’ll shower you with love, affection and gifts while whispering poetry in your ear at a dinner he organized next to a waterfall as a band he hired plays your favorite songs beneath the setting sun. It will be beautiful.
你希望你的另一半能用他的爱和礼物淹没你，他会在夕阳下的瀑布旁为你准备一桌晚餐，轻声在你耳边为你念诵情诗，还会让乐队在旁边演奏你最喜欢的歌曲。一切都美妙无比。
If you’re her, remember: There’s nothing wrong with holding out for your soulmate or expecting your guy to be a romantic but be reasonable.
如果你是这样的女生，请记住：想找一个灵魂伴侣或者一个浪漫的恋人并没有什么错，但还是实际一点好。
The Cynic
怀疑论者
You’re not a fool. When you meet a guy, you don’t fall hard and fast — you actually assume he’s an jerk from the beginning and make him prove he’s not — you’ve had your heart broken a few times and, you will not let it happen again.
你并不是傻。但是当你遇见一个男孩子的时候，你从来不会有立马坠入爱河的感觉。你一开始总是先认定他们都是混蛋，然后让他们证明自己不是。你的心已经伤过好几次了，你不允许有谁再伤它一次。
If you’re her, remember: We’re all for making a guy prove he’s worthy before letting him in but being too careful/scared can make you seem closed and limit your opportunities.
如果你是这样的女生，请记住：我们都希望男生能证明自己配得上我们，但如果你总是变现得过于小心翼翼、甚至畏畏缩缩，那你实际上是在自我封闭，这会极大地限制你选择的余地。
Be open, hope for the best, and take chances.
还是放开一点比较好，做最好的打算，给自己创造些机会。