A person with high EQ doesn 8217;t often criticize people.
一个情商高的人，不会总是去批评别人。
That 8217;s because criticizing usually doesn 8217;t solve any problem.
因为批评往往并不解决任何问题。
Everybody wants to solve problems. It 8217;s just that many people don 8217;t know how. And criticizing doesn 8217;t change this.
每个人都希望能解决问题，只是很多人并不知道怎么做，而批评并不能解决这种现状。
Someone with high EQ knows this well. So they only make criticism when they can provide their solutions.
情商高的人知道这一点，所以他们只在能提出解决方案的时候才会给出批评。
And they don 8217;t merely criticize. They will tell you how to make things better.
而且他们不会只批评，他们会说出怎样让现状变好。
A person who does nothing but criticizing is just trying to find himself a sense of superiority .
一个仅仅只知道批评的人，其实是在给自己找优越感。
Someone with high EQ also knows how to see things from other people 8217;s perspectives.
情商高的人还懂得从别人的角度看问题。
It 8217;s not only taking care of others 8217; feelings. It 8217;s also a means of getting what you want.
这不单单只是照顾别人的感情，它也可以是一种达成目的的手段。
Nobody really cares about what you want. And that 8217;s why merely asking for things usually won 8217;t get you those things.
没有人真正在乎你想得到什么，所以单纯的索要通常不能让你得到你想要的东西。
If you want someone to help you, you should think about what his needs are and figure out how to make him think it 8217;s good for him to help you.
想要获得别人的帮助，你就该想想对方的需求，然后想想怎样让他们觉得帮助你是一件有利可图的事情。
Someone with high EQ also knows how to listen to others.
一个情商高的人还懂得倾听别人的话。
This is not just about manners.
这不光是一种礼貌的表现。
It 8217;s a kind of philosophy of living.
这也是一种处世哲学。
One person 8217;s mind is inevitably limited in some way. Knowing how to listen to others can broaden your horizon.
一个人的想法是有局限性的，善于倾听他们的声音能让你的思维更广阔。
A person with high EQ knows this just so well.
而情商高的人深深地懂得这一点。